The Services for Ruth Porter will be held at the Mayfield Kiser Funeral Home BurlesonTX. on March 31, 2014 Visitation will begin at 10:00am Monday followed by the service at 12:00pm. Interment will be at Burleson Memorial Park in Burleson TX. Ruth was born on December 27, 1947 in Los Angeles CA. She was the daughter of Leland and Myrtle VanDeventer. She graduated from Ambassador High then earned a BA degree at Vanguard University in Costa Mesa Ca.. Her professional career was in Christian Education which included work in California and Texas. She retired in 2008 and continued as a substitute teacher in Burleson and Joshua ISD’s and Nazarene Christian Academy. Her hobbies included oil painting, sewing. embroidery, crafts with her latest being scrapbooking. This is just a few of the many hobbies that she love doing. She is survived by her husband Walter Porter, daughter Kimberlee Mendoza and husband Richard II of San Diego, CA., Rhonda Shriver and her husband James of Bremerton WA. She was blessed with five grandchildren Jessica and Tom Fowler, Victoria, and Stephenson Shriver of Bremerton WA. Richard III, and Ethan Mendoza of San Diego CA. Step Sisters Sheryl Sly and Linda Kesier both of California. Proceeded in death by Father Leland VanDventer, Mother Myrtle VanDventer, and Step Mother June VanDeventer.
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Walt, so sorry about your loss. My thoughts are with you. Ruth is in Heaven with Jesus now and she is out of pain and suffering. We will see her again.
Hugs and prayers for you and your daughters.
Ann
Walt, so sorry about your loss. My thoughts are with you. Ruth is in Heaven with Jesus now and she is out of pain and suffering. We will see her again.
Hugs and prayers for you and your daughters.
Ann
Our condolence goes out to all of you at this time of your life and we will remember you all in our prayers and each day as you move on with your days ahead. We will not be able to make it to the service because of school so we have you all in our prayers.
Our condolence goes out to all of you at this time of your life and we will remember you all in our prayers and each day as you move on with your days ahead. We will not be able to make it to the service because of school so we have you all in our prayers.
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Mrs. Porter-
She was such a special person and will be Greatly missed –
My prayers are with you Mr. Porter and all your family –
PJ Cormier
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Mrs. Porter-
She was such a special person and will be Greatly missed –
My prayers are with you Mr. Porter and all your family –
PJ Cormier
Would love to be with you, but our thoughts & prayers will be … Blessings to the whole family. May God give you HIS PEACE …
Would love to be with you, but our thoughts & prayers will be … Blessings to the whole family. May God give you HIS PEACE …
We’re sending our love and prayers to all of you. Ruth was one of the best teachers I knew. She was a wonderful friend. I have many special memories of her. We pray for God’s Blessings and comfort for all of you.
We’re sending our love and prayers to all of you. Ruth was one of the best teachers I knew. She was a wonderful friend. I have many special memories of her. We pray for God’s Blessings and comfort for all of you.
Walt, I want you to know you & the family are in my thoughts & prayers. I am sure this what Ruth would say:
To my dearest family, some things I’d like to say.
To my dearest family, some things I’d like to say. But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay. I’m writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above. Here, there’s no more tears of sadness; Here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I’m out of sight. Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night. That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through. God picked me up and hugged me and He said, “I welcome you. It’s good to have you back again, you were missed while you were gone. As for your dearest family, They’ll be here later on. There’s so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.”
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do. And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you. And when you lie in bed at night the day’s chores put to flight. God and I are closest to you….in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years. Because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears. But do not be afraid to cry: it does relieve the pain. Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned. If I were to tell you, you wouldn’t understand. But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o’er. I’m closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb; But together we can do it by taking one day at a time. It was always my philosophy and I’d like it for you too; That as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who’s in sorrow and pain; Then you can say to God at night……”My day was not in vain.” And now I am contented….that my life was worthwhile. Knowing as I passed along the way I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low; Just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go. When you’re walking down the street and you’ve got Me on your mind; I’m walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it’s time for you to go….from that body to be free. Remember you’re not going…..you’re coming here to Me.
Walt, I want you to know you & the family are in my thoughts & prayers. I am sure this what Ruth would say:
To my dearest family, some things I’d like to say.
To my dearest family, some things I’d like to say. But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay. I’m writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above. Here, there’s no more tears of sadness; Here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I’m out of sight. Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night. That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through. God picked me up and hugged me and He said, “I welcome you. It’s good to have you back again, you were missed while you were gone. As for your dearest family, They’ll be here later on. There’s so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.”
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do. And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you. And when you lie in bed at night the day’s chores put to flight. God and I are closest to you….in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years. Because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears. But do not be afraid to cry: it does relieve the pain. Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned. If I were to tell you, you wouldn’t understand. But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o’er. I’m closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb; But together we can do it by taking one day at a time. It was always my philosophy and I’d like it for you too; That as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who’s in sorrow and pain; Then you can say to God at night……”My day was not in vain.” And now I am contented….that my life was worthwhile. Knowing as I passed along the way I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low; Just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go. When you’re walking down the street and you’ve got Me on your mind; I’m walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it’s time for you to go….from that body to be free. Remember you’re not going…..you’re coming here to Me.
My heartly condolence.
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My heartly condolence.
govinda Pd. Panta
from kathamndu, nepal
Walt, words can not express my heart felt sympathy for you and your family.
Walt, words can not express my heart felt sympathy for you and your family.
Walt, be kind to yourself. Take things one day at a time. It’s okay to cry, to scream, to rage … those times will come, and it doesn’t mean you’re losing it. It takes time to work through grief, and there is no set formula. It’s also okay to enjoy special days. To laugh with friends. To not feel guilty about doing something “fun”. Ruth’s enjoying heaven, after all! You and the girls be patient with each others’ journey through the grief process. Give each other lots of love and understanding space as needed. Most of all, remember that God is your source! Each moment of each day.
This comes from the heart of a friend who knows what you’ll be experiencing on your journey. Oh, forgot to mention the fog you’ll probably experience for awhile. A numbness. A fog. I think it’s God’s way of keeping us from losing it once the service is over, the cards and expressions of love all read and appreciated, and everyone’s back to normal. Except you… for whom things will never be the same again. God keeps us numb until the raw emotions that would tear us apart have subsided some, and we are able to begin healing.
Praying for you and your family.
Walt, be kind to yourself. Take things one day at a time. It’s okay to cry, to scream, to rage … those times will come, and it doesn’t mean you’re losing it. It takes time to work through grief, and there is no set formula. It’s also okay to enjoy special days. To laugh with friends. To not feel guilty about doing something “fun”. Ruth’s enjoying heaven, after all! You and the girls be patient with each others’ journey through the grief process. Give each other lots of love and understanding space as needed. Most of all, remember that God is your source! Each moment of each day.
This comes from the heart of a friend who knows what you’ll be experiencing on your journey. Oh, forgot to mention the fog you’ll probably experience for awhile. A numbness. A fog. I think it’s God’s way of keeping us from losing it once the service is over, the cards and expressions of love all read and appreciated, and everyone’s back to normal. Except you… for whom things will never be the same again. God keeps us numb until the raw emotions that would tear us apart have subsided some, and we are able to begin healing.
Praying for you and your family.
Walt, This morning when I awoke my thoughts went to you and then thought that Paula and Ruth are together again. I have been praying for you and the family all day and will continue to do so. You are so precious and loved.
Walt, This morning when I awoke my thoughts went to you and then thought that Paula and Ruth are together again. I have been praying for you and the family all day and will continue to do so. You are so precious and loved.
We are sorry for your loss of Ruth. Praying for you all.
We are sorry for your loss of Ruth. Praying for you all.
Walt, I’m so sorry to hear about Ruth. When mom told me my heart hurt. You both were such wonderful friends to mom and dad. Praying for you and the days ahead.
Walt, I’m so sorry to hear about Ruth. When mom told me my heart hurt. You both were such wonderful friends to mom and dad. Praying for you and the days ahead.
Uncle Walter, while the pain in the loss of your partner can not be diminished by words I know that both of you are God loving people, so take comfort in your faith and know you both will meet again in full health and love.
Uncle Walter, while the pain in the loss of your partner can not be diminished by words I know that both of you are God loving people, so take comfort in your faith and know you both will meet again in full health and love.
Dear Walt and family: Having known Ruth since high school, I treasure all my memories of her, and especially rejoice in the time we have shared over the last few years. My heart aches that she left us so soon. Walt, I’ve known you since I was in junior high, and it was such an amazing surprise to find you married to Ruth.
Wish I could be there Monday, but I will be with you in spirit – wearing purple. Love to you all.
Dear Walt and family: Having known Ruth since high school, I treasure all my memories of her, and especially rejoice in the time we have shared over the last few years. My heart aches that she left us so soon. Walt, I’ve known you since I was in junior high, and it was such an amazing surprise to find you married to Ruth.
Wish I could be there Monday, but I will be with you in spirit – wearing purple. Love to you all.
How can it be . . .
How can it be . . .
Walt, So glad we got to meet Ruth and have some time together at the Reunion last summer. I will wear the scarf with pride that I got from Ruth…it will remind me of a beautiful life!
Love to you and your family.
Walt, So glad we got to meet Ruth and have some time together at the Reunion last summer. I will wear the scarf with pride that I got from Ruth…it will remind me of a beautiful life!
Love to you and your family.
Walt, I am sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during these difficult times. The DVD in her memory was beautiful! You have been blessed in your marriage to Ruth and although she has been taken from you, her memories can never be taken away. May God be ever so close to you in the days ahead and fill the void in your heart with His incredible love and peace.. Darrell & Charlotte Lake – Eagle, Idaho
Walt, I am sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during these difficult times. The DVD in her memory was beautiful! You have been blessed in your marriage to Ruth and although she has been taken from you, her memories can never be taken away. May God be ever so close to you in the days ahead and fill the void in your heart with His incredible love and peace.. Darrell & Charlotte Lake – Eagle, Idaho
I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying for comfort for you, Walter, and the family. You will see Ruth again in heaven. God Bless
I am so sorry for your loss. I am praying for comfort for you, Walter, and the family. You will see Ruth again in heaven. God Bless
Walt, I don’t know what to say. My Heart goes out to you at this time. Just be happy for her believing she is in better shape than we are. Love ya, friend!
Walt, I don’t know what to say. My Heart goes out to you at this time. Just be happy for her believing she is in better shape than we are. Love ya, friend!
To all Ruth’s family left behind I feel your pain and tears. Cause I too feel the loss of cousin Ruth just the same. But I know she went to Heaven, cause her job on earth is done. Her helping hand, smile and her laughter was like no one. To Walt I am so sorry for you loss and I know the Lord is with you to comfort you. I also feel for Kimberlee and Rhonda. plus all the many left behind. Love and blessings. Linda
To all Ruth’s family left behind I feel your pain and tears. Cause I too feel the loss of cousin Ruth just the same. But I know she went to Heaven, cause her job on earth is done. Her helping hand, smile and her laughter was like no one. To Walt I am so sorry for you loss and I know the Lord is with you to comfort you. I also feel for Kimberlee and Rhonda. plus all the many left behind. Love and blessings. Linda
Walt words cannot express what you and your family are going thru right now. Ruth is where we all are striving for to be with Jesus. She fought a good fight and she was a devoted Christian. We have the peace knowing she’s in the arms of Jesus. I remember her from the days of Clairemont Christian School. Such a sweet lady. I was an honor to have our paths cross. It was good to see you 2 when you were in Bakersfield a couple years ago. Enjoyed the luncheon we had shared together. Many good memories. Your family are in my prayers may God give you peace and comfort.
Walt words cannot express what you and your family are going thru right now. Ruth is where we all are striving for to be with Jesus. She fought a good fight and she was a devoted Christian. We have the peace knowing she’s in the arms of Jesus. I remember her from the days of Clairemont Christian School. Such a sweet lady. I was an honor to have our paths cross. It was good to see you 2 when you were in Bakersfield a couple years ago. Enjoyed the luncheon we had shared together. Many good memories. Your family are in my prayers may God give you peace and comfort.
You’re in my prayers, Walt. May the Father who welcomed Ruth home keep His arms tightly around you and your family in the days ahead. Lovingly, Ginger Galloway Haan
You’re in my prayers, Walt. May the Father who welcomed Ruth home keep His arms tightly around you and your family in the days ahead. Lovingly, Ginger Galloway Haan
Beautiful tribute to a beautiful person…inside and out. Every phone call ended with a “I love you Sis” and so I say “I love you Sis” … until we meet again.
Beautiful tribute to a beautiful person…inside and out. Every phone call ended with a “I love you Sis” and so I say “I love you Sis” … until we meet again.
This is a beautiful video. Ruth would love it! Our prayers are with you, Walt, and the entire family. We love you!
This is a beautiful video. Ruth would love it! Our prayers are with you, Walt, and the entire family. We love you!
I am in awe at the grace with which Ruth and the entire family handled her sudden illness and rapid decline. Ruth is a beautiful person, and she will be missed tremendously. She was always encouraging others, and her death inspires me to fill the void she left and live my life differently.
I am in awe at the grace with which Ruth and the entire family handled her sudden illness and rapid decline. Ruth is a beautiful person, and she will be missed tremendously. She was always encouraging others, and her death inspires me to fill the void she left and live my life differently.
My prayers and love are with you all. I loved spending time with Ruth and we always had a great time together. I will miss her dearly when the “divas” get together-she was an integral part of our little group. I will forever remember her enthusiastic laugh and her sweet spirit.
My prayers and love are with you all. I loved spending time with Ruth and we always had a great time together. I will miss her dearly when the “divas” get together-she was an integral part of our little group. I will forever remember her enthusiastic laugh and her sweet spirit.
Mrs. Porter was a wonderful first grade teacher. I loved having her and knowing her. Blessings to all of you. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Mrs. Porter was a wonderful first grade teacher. I loved having her and knowing her. Blessings to all of you. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Beautiful tribute to Ruth and your whole family. Part of me is already in heaven with our loved ones-we are only here on earth a very short time-Ruth made the most of it. May the Lord hold and comfort you and lead you into your remaining future with Him until you join her there.
Love The Eberts
Beautiful tribute to Ruth and your whole family. Part of me is already in heaven with our loved ones-we are only here on earth a very short time-Ruth made the most of it. May the Lord hold and comfort you and lead you into your remaining future with Him until you join her there.
Love The Eberts
Dear Walt,
You and Ruth have been such a blessing to so many. May the Holy Spirit comfort you much! I am truly sorry for your loss. Knowing you will see her again in Heaven is our hope. My prayers are with you & your family!
Dear Walt,
You and Ruth have been such a blessing to so many. May the Holy Spirit comfort you much! I am truly sorry for your loss. Knowing you will see her again in Heaven is our hope. My prayers are with you & your family!
Our deepest condolences to all of you. My son was a former student of Mrs. Porter from Christian Academy. She was a Godly woman who embraced my son and inspired him. It was in her classroom that he constructed his first art piece, which was entered in the county art contest and won first place. My son is a senior in high school this year and a very talented artist. We will never forget Mrs. Porter and what she did for my son as well as many other children. I know she is with the Lord smiling down on us all.
Our deepest condolences to all of you. My son was a former student of Mrs. Porter from Christian Academy. She was a Godly woman who embraced my son and inspired him. It was in her classroom that he constructed his first art piece, which was entered in the county art contest and won first place. My son is a senior in high school this year and a very talented artist. We will never forget Mrs. Porter and what she did for my son as well as many other children. I know she is with the Lord smiling down on us all.
Beautiful video tribute to a beautiful lady! Ruth was a loving, sweet lady that I got to know through scrapbooking at church. She loved making cards to bless people with and helped make cards every year for our single moms on Mother’s Day. She loved God, her family, and friends. She will be greatly missed. May the Lord comfort Walt and the rest of her family.
Beautiful video tribute to a beautiful lady! Ruth was a loving, sweet lady that I got to know through scrapbooking at church. She loved making cards to bless people with and helped make cards every year for our single moms on Mother’s Day. She loved God, her family, and friends. She will be greatly missed. May the Lord comfort Walt and the rest of her family.
I don’t really know what to say that hasn’t already been said…and said much better than I, Walt. You are loved so much, by so many. May God bless & keep you during this time when when you need him so much. You and your family will always be in my prayers until such time as we meet on that beautiful Shore. Lovingly, Carrie Henderson Howell
I don’t really know what to say that hasn’t already been said…and said much better than I, Walt. You are loved so much, by so many. May God bless & keep you during this time when when you need him so much. You and your family will always be in my prayers until such time as we meet on that beautiful Shore. Lovingly, Carrie Henderson Howell
Walt,
I loved you wife so much. Ruth was such a precious person and a great friend. I will miss her dearly. However, in the midst of my tears from her loss, I am also rejoicing that she has received a perfect healing in heaven. I can just envision Ruth and Pastor Ron fellowshipping in heaven. We will meet again. Thank God! Walt thank you for being so faithful and loving to Ruth to the end of her life on earth and as she was entering the threshold of glory. My faith in God has been so strengthened by your example.
Love in Christ,
Sharon
Walt,
I loved you wife so much. Ruth was such a precious person and a great friend. I will miss her dearly. However, in the midst of my tears from her loss, I am also rejoicing that she has received a perfect healing in heaven. I can just envision Ruth and Pastor Ron fellowshipping in heaven. We will meet again. Thank God! Walt thank you for being so faithful and loving to Ruth to the end of her life on earth and as she was entering the threshold of glory. My faith in God has been so strengthened by your example.
Love in Christ,
Sharon
I was just sitting here thinking of Ruth and how she is ‘completely’ healed, never to know sickness again. We don’t always understand God’s plan but we must trust His heart. Walt, Kim, Rhonda and your families, I know there is already a great hole in your heart…a vacancy that no one can fill BUT GOD is our refuge and strength, a very present help in time of need. May he comfort you and give you peace as you begin this journey without the precious wife, mom, grandmother and friend that has brought so much joy into your lives. HE is our Peace. Ruth, I’m wearing Purple our your Celebration Day! See you soon. Lovingly, “Smitty”
I was just sitting here thinking of Ruth and how she is ‘completely’ healed, never to know sickness again. We don’t always understand God’s plan but we must trust His heart. Walt, Kim, Rhonda and your families, I know there is already a great hole in your heart…a vacancy that no one can fill BUT GOD is our refuge and strength, a very present help in time of need. May he comfort you and give you peace as you begin this journey without the precious wife, mom, grandmother and friend that has brought so much joy into your lives. HE is our Peace. Ruth, I’m wearing Purple our your Celebration Day! See you soon. Lovingly, “Smitty”
It just doesn’t seem possible. She will always be cherished in our hearts. My heart just aches for you. Know you are loved and we are praying for you. <3 I wonder what she is crafting for the magic show? ((hugs))
It just doesn’t seem possible. She will always be cherished in our hearts. My heart just aches for you. Know you are loved and we are praying for you. <3 I wonder what she is crafting for the magic show? ((hugs))
Walt,
Ruth is a great woman and I know that heaven is rejoicing because she is there singing with her beautiful voice. Remember that we will all be togethter again one day on those beautiful shores. I pray that God comfort you in your time of mourning and that He be with you for the rest of your days. You still have your church family here and we will always be here for you. The choir has lost a great piece of our heart but I am glad that Ruth is no longer suffering here on earth. Prayers to you and your family.
Casandra Martin
Walt,
Ruth is a great woman and I know that heaven is rejoicing because she is there singing with her beautiful voice. Remember that we will all be togethter again one day on those beautiful shores. I pray that God comfort you in your time of mourning and that He be with you for the rest of your days. You still have your church family here and we will always be here for you. The choir has lost a great piece of our heart but I am glad that Ruth is no longer suffering here on earth. Prayers to you and your family.
Casandra Martin
Ruth, has been a true and loving friend…We will always carry a very, very special place in our hearts and love for her and therefore, she will always be with us. We love you, Ruth and Walt xoxoxoxo
Ruth, has been a true and loving friend…We will always carry a very, very special place in our hearts and love for her and therefore, she will always be with us. We love you, Ruth and Walt xoxoxoxo
I am do sorry for y’all’s loss. Your family is in my prayers. What a beautiful service. I’m sorry I couldn’t be there but it was very touching watching it tonight. God bless you all. Walter, if you need anything friend, I am here for you. Just give me a call.
I am do sorry for y’all’s loss. Your family is in my prayers. What a beautiful service. I’m sorry I couldn’t be there but it was very touching watching it tonight. God bless you all. Walter, if you need anything friend, I am here for you. Just give me a call.
We became acquainted with Ruth through her marriage to Jesse’s brother, Ken. In fact, Jesse performed their ceremony. Even after the breakup of her marriage to Jesse’s brother, we have remained friends. Throughout the years we have been in contact with Ruth and especially since she moved to Texas. We have always thought of her as our sister. We always felt loved by her and enjoyed being with her. She had a giving personality and she sees the best in everyone. Words cannot express how sad we feel at our loss of our dear sister, Ruth. The only comfort we have is that we will see her again. We have come to love Walt too through her. Walt is a most kind and thoughtful person. Always included us and our family in anything to do with them. We will continue to be friends with Walt. We will keep him in our prayers as well as Kim, Rhonda and their families.
We became acquainted with Ruth through her marriage to Jesse’s brother, Ken. In fact, Jesse performed their ceremony. Even after the breakup of her marriage to Jesse’s brother, we have remained friends. Throughout the years we have been in contact with Ruth and especially since she moved to Texas. We have always thought of her as our sister. We always felt loved by her and enjoyed being with her. She had a giving personality and she sees the best in everyone. Words cannot express how sad we feel at our loss of our dear sister, Ruth. The only comfort we have is that we will see her again. We have come to love Walt too through her. Walt is a most kind and thoughtful person. Always included us and our family in anything to do with them. We will continue to be friends with Walt. We will keep him in our prayers as well as Kim, Rhonda and their families.
Dear Walt, Rhonda and Kim
I would like to like to express my deepest sympathy for your loss.
I still remember Ruth as a very loving and warm hearted, wonderful woman.
Thinking of you,
Barbara (from Austria)
Dear Walt, Rhonda and Kim
I would like to like to express my deepest sympathy for your loss.
I still remember Ruth as a very loving and warm hearted, wonderful woman.
Thinking of you,
Barbara (from Austria)