Denton, TX – Joel Brewster, 64, passed away on May 11, 2024 in Dallas, after a courageous battle with cancer. He was born October 17, 1959 in Caribou, Maine. Predeceased by his father, Graydon Brewster in 2008 and brother, Scott Brewster in 2015; Joel is survived by his mother, Judy Brewster (Malm); brother, Steven Brewster and sister-in-law, Sharon; daughters and their husbands, Kaytlynn & Keith Chavanelle and Khrysta & Justin Smithers; former wife, Anne Morrill, and numerous extended family and friends that became family. Joel grew up in Merrimack, NH and spent most of his life in New Hampshire. He was known for the mischief he created around town (whichever town that may have been depending on the time). The phrase “it’s not my fault, I was with Joel Brewster” became quite familiar among his circle of friends. Joel was an Engineer, by trade, but known as the “Entertainment Director” and/or “Attorney” by many others. An artful storyteller, he loved to spend his time surrounded by friends and family, both blood and chosen, riding on two wheels and playing sports. In his younger years it was softball, which he took very seriously, demonstrated by his infamous eye black. Later on, golf was his sport of choice where his commentary far exceeded his skill. After relocating to Dallas, TX he lovingly spread his chaos down south, and built new friendships that would last for the rest of his life. And as Joel would put it, “we’re here for a good time, not a long time.” He will forever be remembered for his smile, infectious laugh, genuine personality and never using training wheels, both figuratively and metaphorically. Joel will be deeply missed by all who were fortunate enough to know and love him, and we all take comfort in knowing that he proudly left a permanent mark on this world. Joel wishes to spend eternity in Northern Maine where his ashes will be spread this summer. A Celebration of Life will be set for a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations in his name may be made to the Scott Brewster Music Fund c/o: Myrna Dixon 377 Station Road New Sweden, ME 04762
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My condolences to the family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
My condolences 💐 leaves a legacy of family friends near far
This amazing ‘cousin’ will be forever missed! His obituary says it all! A genuine human being who made it his mission in life to make people LIVE, LAUGH AND LOVE! 😘
That was a comprehensive and beautiful picture of Joel’s life. He lived a full, fulfilling life which will last in our memories forever.
We are so very sorry for your loss. Joel was certainly a character and will be missed by all. Sending love to Kayt, Khrysta and Anne. We will cherish all of the fun,good times and laughs we had because of Joel.
Cindy and Joe Bannon
I was fortunate enough to have spent some time in high school with Joel.He was a unique fun loving man who always had a smile on his face. I am very glad that I got to see him last summer at the reunion party at Joe Goodridge’s home. I will always remember all the good times and Joel’s friendship. He will be missed by many of us.
Annie, Khrysta and Justin, Kaytlynn and Judy, We are beyond sorry for your loss. Joel was family to us. Joel and Dan were known as “The Booze Brothers” at Nashua Corp., Nashua, NH. Their friendship spanned the decades and the stories will remain “What could go wrong?”. This is devastating to say the least. T.J. Spirits, The Jade, Worcester Centrum (ZZ TOPP and Sammy Hagar), Our weddings (41 and 40 years ago), Khrysta and Justin’s pre- wedding party, Khrysta and Justin’s wedding, Hanging out at Joel’s house in Denton, Dan’s 60th birthday (Oh, the stories)! These are just a few memories. The tears are flowing now, but the laughter will never fade whenever we think of Joel.
Dan and Cathy Davidson
Buzz was a name I gave him … many years ago . Everyone on the softball team had a nickname he had the flat top and he looked like Buzz light year…. love Buzz like a brother he used to call me a thorn or a rocket his shoe…… we laughed had fun and right now I’m devastated so sorry to read this and I know a lot of our softball team from the past will be sad and devastated too…. I can’t say anny bad about him and our love-hate relationship and how he was a pebble in my shie….Love you, Buzz.
I am so sad to hear that Joel is no longer with us. I will always remember my times with him and his friends as full of laughs and adventure and will never forget
the “short ones” with “no training wheels” that were always on the menu! Joel had a heart of gold and would do anything for his friends and family. I was introduced to The Lobster Pound at the Weirs and spent many summer nights on the Upper Deck with the crew.
My sincere condolences go out to his daughters and his mother and extended family. I know for sure that a spirit like his, is up to his usual antics, wondering…”what could possibly go wrong?”.
Will miss you and remember you always,
Lisa Bissonnette
My sincere condolences… Just the mention of Joel’s name brings a smile to my face. I too was glad to get to see him at our MHS Class reunion last summer. He loved and lived a full life. He will certainly be missed but never forgotten. God Bless!
I am writing to express my deepest condolences on the passing of Joel Brewster. I was deeply saddened to hear about your loss, and my heart goes out to you and your family during this incredibly difficult time. Joel was a remarkable person whose presence brought warmth and kindness to everyone who had the privilege of knowing him. His contributions to helping the Micropac team through a difficult situation were invaluable, and his memory will continue to live on in the hearts of all who were touched by his kindness and spirit. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.
With my deepest sympathy,
Elizabeth Kern
My condolences for your loss. Joel was friends with my brothers Don and Artie Houle. He teased me alot when I saw him as a kid. Rest in peace.❤️
An amazing Guy! So much fun and a spirited light tgat not many have!! Joel lived his life fiercely and forward.
We should all learn from his frank honesty, and boisterous spirit!
He was truly. ‘One of a kind ‘ and loved for just that!
God called him home… but too soon for all if us who will be missing his light here.
Salute to quite an original man and friend! he left a wake of energy waves wherever he went! In the best way. RIP Joel. You were one crazy good guy❤️Roberta compagna.
I was so sorry to hear this. Joel was a great guy with a big and open heart! He laughed easily and honestly and brought smiles to those who knew him. We are all better off to have had him in our lives. I had the good fortune to have known him for just a little bit and he will be greatly missed. Please accept my deepest sympathies.
Joel was wild and crazy and kind and always the entertainer trying to make all who were there have as much fun as he was having.
My most heartfelt sympathies to his family and all those loving friends who clearly are grieving an enormous loss.
To say Joel “left a permanent mark on this world” is an understatement. He left an absolutely positive mark and I’m so grateful I had the opportunity to get to know him. Joel always made me feel like we had been family forever. His larger than life character has blessed me in many ways. I may have been looking forward to his “Blaze of Glory tour” almost as much as he was.
Praying peace and comfort to Aunt Judy, Steve, Kaytlynn, Khrysta, Anne and all who knew and loved Joel.
You are deeply missed cousin Joel.
I was lucky to have worked with Joel at his last place of employee. He was kind, considerate, helpful, and fun. He will be missed. Rest easy Joel, you’ve earned it.
My sincerest condolences to Joel’s family and friends. Praying that God’s good grace is helping each everyone through this very sad time. I have such wonderful memories of Joel and I find so much comfort in the fact that I had the opportunity to know this great guy. RIP Joel ✨❤️💔
I just learned of Joel’s passing today. I have tears streaming down as I am typing this. He and I had a number of business trips together. We had some fun times and I learned alot from his perspective on work and on life. He was always helpful, like someone I could count on. He is very much missed and I hope he has now found peace since when he first told me about this struggle with cancer.
My condolences and prayers to the Brewster family for your loss. I worked with Joel during his time at BAE Systems. We always talked about our daughters even though mine are still in grade school. He was very proud of his daughters… Joe was always an easy-going person to interacted with on many subjects. I will miss his positive energy he shared with us. RIP Joel Brewster!
My sincere condolences to the family. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.