David Scott Bergholm, 51, of Arlington, TX, passed away on October 17, 2023. David was born in Lowell, MA on May 22, 1972. He was preceded in death by his parents, Donald and Carol Bergholm, and he left behind a daughter Hailey and granddaughter Paisley of Arlington, TX, a son Dawson of Vershire, VT as well as other family members and friends.
Condolence Messages
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This is one of the best pictures of David. Rest in peace with mum. ❤
David, you’re gone way too soon. Rest easy baby boy. I love and miss you always.
Hailey, I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad. You are in my prayers and thoughts. I love you, baby girl!
Auntie xoxo
David spoke of you often. I think he felt a strong connection with you. I know the whole story behind the adoption, David shared it with me. David had many struggles. He was strong but being away from his son was almost more than he could bare. I promise with everything in me that Dawson will know the truth about his dad and why he disappeared from his life. I surely hope Dawson’s mother did the right thing and told him of his fathers passing.. I am the friend that found David unresponsive , called 911 and was by his side up until his daughter told the staff (nurses and hospice) at Medical City to not allow him any visitors , ,?friends , or his “family “ that truly cared and loved him. David unnecessarily , died alone. His daughter was not there, but would not let the ones that wanted to be by his side in to be with him. The ones David would tell you himself he would want to be there … I don’t understand it, but it’s not for me to understand. She had her reasons and I cannot consume my heart with hate, but it’s hard for me and many of his true friends . No one should die alone. He did not have to, but he did. My name is Cyndy and I hope this gets to you.
David, it has been almost a year since your passing , and I miss you more every day, It seems to get harder rather than easier with each day that passes I guess it sinks in more and more , and I realize you really won’t be coming back this time.
We had a bond that could and would never be broken. Despite what people may think or may have thought what they may say or have said, we know the truth and know the kind of man you will always be. You were taken far too soon. You still had a lot of life left to live. I know you were aware of who was there by your side, who was fighting for you . It was too soon, … I was too late. I should have gone and checked on you sooner.. if I had gone with my gut feeling I had and left work that Friday , rather than waiting til Saturday morning, maybe this would not have happened. Keep sending me signs, the strange unexplained happenings with my garage door, the cardinals and hummingbirds, and the music.., the music you love. Your son will know the truth my friend, I know you will not rest until he does. My promise to you. My sisters promise to you. You consume my thoughts daily, and I know you’re enjoying how upset I am over loosing you.. you always said I was going to miss you one day, and oh how you were right. I miss you aggravating me, I miss hearing you call me “WIMPEE”, I miss you hating Tucker, I miss you loving Oslo. I miss your loud mouth, smart ass comments, and I miss your loyalty to me and all your friends. I should have told you how much I loved you before you were laying in the hospital bed . You taught me a lot of things. I love and miss you more than I ever thought iI would. Til we meet again, my friend… til we meet again…
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This is one of the best pictures of David. Rest in peace with mum. ❤
David, you’re gone way too soon. Rest easy baby boy. I love and miss you always.
Hailey, I’m so sorry for the loss of your dad. You are in my prayers and thoughts. I love you, baby girl!
Auntie xoxo
My brother…please rest in peace. Your sister, B
David spoke of you often. I think he felt a strong connection with you. I know the whole story behind the adoption, David shared it with me. David had many struggles. He was strong but being away from his son was almost more than he could bare. I promise with everything in me that Dawson will know the truth about his dad and why he disappeared from his life. I surely hope Dawson’s mother did the right thing and told him of his fathers passing.. I am the friend that found David unresponsive , called 911 and was by his side up until his daughter told the staff (nurses and hospice) at Medical City to not allow him any visitors , ,?friends , or his “family “ that truly cared and loved him. David unnecessarily , died alone. His daughter was not there, but would not let the ones that wanted to be by his side in to be with him. The ones David would tell you himself he would want to be there … I don’t understand it, but it’s not for me to understand. She had her reasons and I cannot consume my heart with hate, but it’s hard for me and many of his true friends . No one should die alone. He did not have to, but he did. My name is Cyndy and I hope this gets to you.
David, it has been almost a year since your passing , and I miss you more every day, It seems to get harder rather than easier with each day that passes I guess it sinks in more and more , and I realize you really won’t be coming back this time.
We had a bond that could and would never be broken. Despite what people may think or may have thought what they may say or have said, we know the truth and know the kind of man you will always be. You were taken far too soon. You still had a lot of life left to live. I know you were aware of who was there by your side, who was fighting for you . It was too soon, … I was too late. I should have gone and checked on you sooner.. if I had gone with my gut feeling I had and left work that Friday , rather than waiting til Saturday morning, maybe this would not have happened. Keep sending me signs, the strange unexplained happenings with my garage door, the cardinals and hummingbirds, and the music.., the music you love. Your son will know the truth my friend, I know you will not rest until he does. My promise to you. My sisters promise to you. You consume my thoughts daily, and I know you’re enjoying how upset I am over loosing you.. you always said I was going to miss you one day, and oh how you were right. I miss you aggravating me, I miss hearing you call me “WIMPEE”, I miss you hating Tucker, I miss you loving Oslo. I miss your loud mouth, smart ass comments, and I miss your loyalty to me and all your friends. I should have told you how much I loved you before you were laying in the hospital bed . You taught me a lot of things. I love and miss you more than I ever thought iI would. Til we meet again, my friend… til we meet again…